Community Guidelines

Welcome to Rivet! We care about you and want you to date and connect safely. That's what these Community Guidelines are for—to set expectations for everyone's behavior, both on and off the app. They're here to make sure everyone feels respected, safe, and ready to find that special connection. So read on!

Profile & Identity

• Be real. Always use real, recent photos of yourself. We want you to show your authentic self, so include at least one clear photo of your full face without heavy filters or effects. No memes or text-only images, let people really see who they're talking to.
  We conduct live-photo verification for everyone and compare it to your uploaded photos using facial recognition technology; any photos that do not match the live-photo will be disallowed.
• Be you. Be honest. People want to meet the real you. Use your genuine name or nickname. Be honest about sharing basic information, including your age, gender, location, etc. Don't pretend to be someone else or lie about yourself—catfishing or false details are not allowed on Rivet.
• Adults only. Rivet is strictly for adults, so you need to be 18 years old or over. We reserve the right to ask for your ID to verify your age, and if you're under 18, you'll be blocked from the app. Please come back when you're older.
• No Minors. Any mention of minors here is off-limits. This includes pictures, stories, or anything else. Keep it strictly adult. Do not post pictures of children or minors.
• One account per person. Don't create duplicate profiles. Stick to one honest account to keep things fair for everyone.
• Images. We generate one cover image for the profile using user submitted headshots as a base. All the other pictures in a user's profile are as submitted by the users. We strongly encourage real pictures of you to get a sense of the authentic person you are, without modification with filters or artificial intelligence based tooling.
• Do not use any words or phrases that violate our Community Guidelines.

Consent & Boundaries

• Ask before you act. Consent is everything—it must be clearly and freely communicated. Always make sure the other person is comfortable before sharing anything intimate or personal. If you wouldn't want it done to you, don't do it to someone else.
• Respect when someone says "no". If someone says "no," "I'm not interested," or just stops replying, respect their decision. They aren't obligated to answer or agree to anything. If someone unmatches you or stops chatting with you, don't chase them on other apps or keep messaging. Just let it go.
• No pressure. Don't push anyone into a date, a conversation, or a photo they're not comfortable sharing. Everyone has different comfort levels, respect it. If you sense someone is feeling uneasy, back off and apologize. Good friendships (and dates!) start with respect.

Respectful Communication

• Be kind. Treat others how you'd like to be treated. Name-calling, insults, or rude comments are not okay. Even in jest, hurtful language can hurt someone's feelings. Lead with kindness.

• No hate or harassment. Rivet is for everyone, and we celebrate inclusivity and diversity. We do not stand for hate of any kind. Attacking someone for their race, religion, gender, orientation, disability, or anything else about who they are is a big no-no. If you don't vibe with someone, it's fine to skip on matching with them but never attack or harass.

• No sexual harassment. Don't send unsolicited sexual images, GIFs, or comments. Cyber-flashing (sending explicit pictures out of the blue) and pressuring someone with sexual talk or jokes are banned. Everything sexual on Rivet should be mutual and consensual. Learn More

• Keep it appropriate. Avoid vile or extremely offensive language. Respect people's privacy: don't share someone else's private messages or profile info outside the app without permission. Trust goes both ways.

  We don't allow content or behavior that makes any individual or group feel harassed, bullied, or targeted. This includes belittling, insulting, or intimidating behavior; making unsolicited comments about someone's appearance; engaging in emotional abuse; blackmail; or wishing, encouraging, or praising acts of violence. Learn More

Off-Platform Behavior

• Be Respectful. Treat people you meet on Rivet with the same respect and kindness as if you met them offline. Whether it's a date or chatting on another app, follow these same guidelines. Your behavior outside the app matters to us.
• IRL Safety. Meet in public, stay in public, tell a friend your plans, and have a backup way home. If anything feels off, trust your gut. Your safety comes first.
• Report Serious Issues. If something bad happens after you meet someone (harassment, assault, etc.), report it. We treat harmful offline behavior seriously. We want you to be safe on and off Rivet.

Social Matching

• Rivet is a trusted community. Everyone here is not just forging new connections for themselves, they are playing a critical role in shaping connections for their community and everyone around them. This is a great honour and a great responsibility. When we ask you if you think a pair is well-suited to each other, please give your honest opinion each time. Thoughtfulness and mutual respect will help us build a wonderful experience for everyone.
• Please do not spam and match people thoughtlessly. We believe collective human intuition is magical and your contribution to the community is invaluable, just like your community is working to surface the best recommendations for you. Please do not send malicious reports or try to contact someone without their approval. We strongly discourage any attempts to game the system and will ban users for abuse.

Prohibited Content

• No Nudity or Porn: Please, no explicit sexual images or pornographic content on your profile or in messages. It will be moderated away. This app is about connecting, not adult content. Learn More
• No Sexual Solicitation: Don't offer or request sexual services, escorts, or paid dates. Trading sex for money or goods is not allowed.
• No Illegal Activity: Don't use Rivet to buy or sell illegal drugs, weapons, or to plan any crimes. Any promotion of illegal activities is strictly forbidden. Learn More
• No Child Exploitation: We have zero tolerance for anything involving minors. Any sexual content with someone under 18, or anyone under 18 using the app, will be removed immediately. Remember: Rivet is for adults only. Learn More
• No Violence: Keep your profile and messages free from graphic violence, self-harm images, or anything extremely disturbing. Let's keep the atmosphere safe and positive. Learn More

Scams, Spam & Financial Solicitation

• No Scams or Fraud: You're here to make real connections, not to trick people out of money. Don't ask people for financial help, gifts, or investments. Seeking financial support or faking romantic intentions are classified as scams, and anyone caught scamming will be banned.
• No Unwanted Promotion: This isn't a marketplace. Don't send people affiliate links, advertising messages, or invites to multi-level marketing schemes. If we see you using Rivet to sell or promote something, we'll remove that content and take action against your account. Learn More
• No Spam or Bots: Don't send the same message to lots of people or use automated tools. Creating multiple accounts to spam others is not allowed. Keep it genuine and one-on-one.

Reporting & Moderation

• Use the Report Button: If someone breaks these rules or makes you feel unsafe, please report them. Reporting is anonymous and instant - once you report, neither of you will see each other's profiles again
• Block & Unmatch: You can also unmatch or block anyone who crosses the line. You don't have to keep talking to people who bother you
• We're on it: We have real people and smart systems monitoring the app around the clock. When we get a report, our team reviews it and decides the next steps. If someone's in the wrong, we might remove their content, issue a warning, or even ban their account
• No Abuse of Reporting: Please report only real issues. Filing false or vindictive reports (targeting someone unfairly) is against our rules. Don't misuse the system.
• Law Enforcement: In serious cases (threats, violence, trafficking, etc.), we will cooperate with law enforcement if needed.

We're Here to Help. If you think we made a mistake in moderating or banning someone, you can contact our support team. We take your safety seriously and want to do right by our community.

You're Good To Go If…

• You use real, honest photos and information (and you're 18+).
• You're polite, friendly, and respectful in all your messages.
• You always get consent before any intimate or sensitive conversation.
• You keep your chats appropriate (no unsolicited explicit content).
• You don't post hateful, harassing, or illegal content.
• You don't spam people or try to scam them.
• You respect others' boundaries (when they say "no," you say "OK").
• You report truly bad behavior—not just people you personally dislike.
• You're on Rivet for genuine connections, not to mislead or hurt anyone.

If all that sounds like you, you're all set! Enjoy Rivet, meet amazing people, and remember - we've got your back for a safe, awesome experience. Happy matching and match-making!